Invisibility Powers Make Leah A Good Girl

                                            Who watches the Leah?

            “If you could have any super power, what super power would you want?” I asked a man as we stood drinking vodka tonics by the bar in XS.

            “I’d want to be able to become invisible,” he said. 

            “That’s a good one! You’re the first person to say that. Why do you want to be able to become invisible?”

            “I don’t really know…” he said with a confused expression.

            “Oh,” I said. “That disappoints me.” 

            It makes me sad when people haven’t put hours of energy, like I have, in to determining what their superpower would be if they could have any super power they want. I mean, what do these people spend their time thinking about? The economy or some other depressing, imaginary, irrelevant crap? I decided to help him brainstorm possibilities.

“If I were invisible, I would steal all of the time. I’d steal everything that wasn’t nailed down,” I said. The man looked appalled.

            “But stealing is wrong,” he said.

            “No,” I explained. “Not if you’re invisible. Invisibility eliminates the possibility of getting in to trouble. If know I won’t get caught, then it's okay to steal.”

I was trying to get a reaction. Based on his lack of effort in answering my super hero question, I’d already determined he wasn’t my type. I figured I might as well mess with him. Now, having explained my pure and honest intentions of making a man angry for my own amusement, I’d like to add that stealing is definitely okay if you’re invisible. 

            “No! Stealing is wrong! It’s wrong to take what’s not yours. It hurts other people,” he said.

            “Except when you’re invisible. Then it’s an act of God,” I said. “Why would God have given me invisibility powers to begin with if he didn’t want me to steal? It’s just logic.” 

            “No! God gave you the power, and you need to choose how to use it! And stealing hurts people. It’s not fair.”

“I’d steal from banks. The money would be insured,” I explained. “I’d also steal makeup and clothes, because I want more of both of those things for myself and less for other people.” 

I disgusted the man now - a Vegas nymph touting the virtues of stealing. I smiled widely as I breathed in his disdain.

            “It’s just bad,” he reiterated dumbly.

            “There is no good and bad,” I said. “There’s good for something and bad for something. Are you good for a drink, right now?”

            “What?”

“Buy me a drink.”

            “Sorry.”

            “Then you are good for nothing. Do you understand? It’s philosophy.” I walked away.

            After this conversation, I thought a lot about invisibility and wondered if my own sense of “right” and “wrong” had been stripped away. Was I a bad person? Was I morally depraved? Was I corrupted past the point of redemption?

            Duh no. I’m a great person. He was a hypocrite.

            I can only think of one possible “moral” thing I could do with invisibility: I could escape from people trying to capture or hurt me. Perhaps, if I was jailed, I could trick my captures in to believing I’d already escaped, then they’d open my cell and I could actually escape.

            Other than that, I can only think of “evil” stuff to do with invisibility: you can steal, invade people’s privacy, cut the line and get in to Vegas clubs for free, watch girls undress in the locker room…

            You might argue that you’d help fight the “bad guys” as a possible justification for whatever awful, deviant plan you have for how to use your invisibility, but this is the same as my rationale for my stealing being okay while invisible - the end justifies the means.

            “But I could save lives!” You are exhausted with my refusal to admit all of the good you could do with invisibility.

            “Well, I could save lives too!” I counter. With all of the money I could steal, I’d help educate children in lower income American cities, I’d help progress women’s rights around the world, and I’d buy decent weed for recovering heroin addicts who are sincere in their efforts to change. I’d make a difference, man!

In conclusion: It would be good for me, and beneficial for humanity, to steal if I had the super power of invisibility. 

Can Men and Women be Friends?

My friend Romy Kessler wrote a hilarious blog post about whether or not women and men can be friends. 

http://hookuplowdown.blogspot.com/2011_11_01_archive.html

Romy is a prototype of nature that was, unfortunately, never put in to mass production – an intelligent, incredibly funny, pixie blonde who loves all people and will approach anyone and everyone with a huge smile. She’s been in Israel for a while now, and I’m amazed she’s made it for so long without a story where she left in the car of an unknown man who had said he’d buy her cookies, or something equally idiotic. Romy loves cookies. If I were going to kidnap Romy, cookies would be 90% of my plan. 

“So, I got in his car, because he said he’d get me cookies… and then he turned on a road I didn’t know…”

“Oh my god! Romy! Are you okay?” I cried out in the hypothetical conversation I was having with Romy in my imagination.

“And I got really worried and said, ‘Hey! Where are we going?’”

“Oh no! He pulled over in some abandoned lot and refused to let you out, didn’t he? I had a Somalian taxi driver try to pull that shit on me one time. Luckily a cop was there, or who knows what would have happened...”

“Hahaha! Leah! You’re funny. No. Then he told me it was a short cut to the mall! And we went to the mall and ate sooooo many cookies! Leah, I ate way too many cookies!”

“Romy! Never do that again! That man could have raped you. Or killed you. Or anything he wanted to do with you!”

“No, he was nice,” Romy answered. “Nobody who likes cookies could be a rapist.” (Keep in mind, Romy never actually said any of this, but she definitely would have had I listened long enough to let her.) In college, I’d envy Romy’s naiveté: she seemed free from so much of what kept me awake at night about the world. She seemed untouchable, and I wanted desperately for her to always be that way.  

Romy actually listens when you talk. Romy actually cares. She doesn’t just look like she cares; the bitch Actually cares.  So what did Romy decide? Can men and women be friends? Romy’s conclusion: No. They can’t. Next question.

                                                   Romy and I with our friends from Ohio State's Varsity Swim Team

I met Romy my junior year of college at The Ohio State University. I first saw her at an assembly where writer/director Kevin Smith was talking about how fat and depressed he is these days.

“I’m incredibly fat and depressed these days,” Kevin Smith said in to the microphone. “Now a question from the audience.”

“Can I get a hug from you?” a cutie little blondie in a fuzzy, long sleeved, white sweater, with her bra straps (always) showing, had waited in line to ask Kevin Smith this question in front of over 500 students.

“I’m sorry honey, I don’t think my wife would appreciate that.” That first night knowing Romy, she didn’t get to hug Kevin Smith because his wife would have been jealous. Awesome when you first think about it, but then sad when you realize Romy will never get to hug Kevin Smith, or any married man, or any man with a girlfriend, or any man with an aggressive girl who likes him, without risking her safety and negatively affecting some poor woman’s sanity. And Romy loves hugs. If it didn’t result in so much jealousy, anger, horniness, and confusion, then Romy would surely hug everyone she met.

I had this offensive little magazine I created for fun with some frat boys during college, and after Kevin Smith’s talk, my friends and I split up and passed them out to everyone leaving. My boyfriend at the time met Romy when she approached him and said she wanted to help out with the magazine. He told her to come to a photo shoot the next day to talk to him about the magazine. The next day, he told me about her interest in writing for the magazine. I knew it was the cutie little blondie from the night before, and I knew she seemed cool, and I figured my boyfriend was probably attracted to her.

“She looked dumb,” I said. “She asked Kevin Smith for a hug. What a crack whore. She is probably a terrible writer.”

“No, she’s actually pretty good!” my boyfriend said.

“Yeah, I bet you think she is.” I rolled my eyes.

“Whatever, you’re acting crazy,” he said. False. He was acting crazy. I was sure of it. I was acting purely on reason. He showed me an article that Romy wrote. It was Great! It was so great in fact, that I quickly forgot my unreasonable jealousy and called Romy immediately. My boyfriend was never near her again, because she was pretty much my girlfriend - have you seen the movie Bridesmaids? Straight women totally date each other.

George is an exception to the rule :-) But just because him and Romy are the two nicest, most huggable people I know, and because he has plenty of girlfriends (who probably all hate Romy). 

            As Romy’s friend, her kindness irritated the crap out of me. I was always being forced to make bullshit, small talk with people I would have preferred to ignore. But Romy found everyone fascinating. Romy wanted to know about everyone. Romy is a nicer girl. I didn’t want to talk to anyone a friend, who I considered a reliable judge of character, hadn’t pre screened. This didn’t include freshman business majors sitting next to us at lunch for me, but Romy wanted to know all about intro to inventory management.

On her dorm room floor, there was an Indian boy who was in love with her – puppy-style, blinder-eyed love. It was obvious from the moment I met him.

            “He’s in love with you,” I said.

            “Who? Rohit? Hahaha that’s funny! Rohit definitely doesn’t like me! He hates nice, funny, smart, cute blonde girls! No, we’re just friends!”

            “Romy, you can’t be friends with boys like Rohit without them being in love with you. You can maybe be friends with guys who get so many girls to sleep with them, that it’s like a cute, weird thing they do to have one attractive female friend, but if a guy isn’t getting laid, you just can’t pretend you’re friends with him. It’s weird. You need to make real friends.”

            “Rohit doesn’t like me. Rohit is my friend,” Romy reiterated. When Rohit inevitably professed his undying love for Romy she called me confused.

            “I had no idea he liked me! This sucks because I really liked him a lot, I had such a fun time with him, but now it’s weird to spend time together.”

            “I’m sorry, Romy. Just learn from this and move on.” 

Through our two years at Ohio State together I watched innumerable “friends” come and go. I think Israel is finally what broke her to reality. A normal friendship can be hard enough to fake, but a friendship between an American blonde girl who has a boyfriend and an Israeli man is out of the question.

I can think of only four exceptions (that sometimes work) to the no-friendship female- male friend rule:

1)   Gay men

2)   Friends of boyfriends/girlfriends (and this friendship often expires with the relationship, but can sometimes lead to actual friendship...)

3)   Men who can get any girl they want, therefore it’s kind of a fun, nice change to have a non-sexual female friend.
     My very few male friends that I grew up with and are now basically honorary brothers. 

     Can men and women be friends?

No. Don’t be silly.

But I’m a firm believer that men and women can enjoy spending quality, non-sexual time together until: one of the “friends” gets in to an actual relationship where the partner forbids them from communicating with the other “friend”; one of the “friends” gets drunk and tries (successfully or not) to sleep with the other “friend”; One “friend” confesses their true feelings to the other “friend.” So that's kind of like being friends. 

Any way, Romy’s article was better. Read that. http://hookuplowdown.blogspot.com/2011_11_01_archive.html

The Worst Date I’ve Ever Been On

            “Hey, I’d love to meet up for sushi and then Afrojack at Surrender tonight.  Interested? Mike.” I rubbed my hung over eyes and looked at the text I’d just gotten – it was 1 pm – what was this guy doing writing me so early on a Sunday? I didn’t remember who Mike was, or what Mike looked like, but at 4 a.m., I remembered there had been a fuzzy shape that I’d enjoyed talking with, and I assumed that was Mike. No, of course I didn’t want to hang out with Mike. I ignored the text. I looked through my phone to see what actual person I could spend some time with that day.  Several hours later, when no friends had returned my texts, and I’d become hungry and wanted to eat free sushi, I texted Mike back.

            “Yeah. That sounds great! I’d love to see you! When and where?”

            I walked in to the lobby of the Cosmopolitan where I’d agreed to meet Mike. Not knowing what he looked like was a real problem now, and I looked around passively trying to see if anyone was looking back at me.

            “There you are, Leah!” a good-looking man, tall, with a weak chin, and brown eyes came over and gave me a hug.

            “Mike! It’s good to see you again! I had so much fun with you last night! Let’s get dinner!” We went to sushi at the Cosmopolitan, and Mike told me that he lives in LA but also promotes in Las Vegas. 

            Oh no! I’d accidentally agreed to a date with a promoter! This was going to be bad; the very skill set and personality necessary for being a successful promoter is the exact same skill set that’s necessary for being a complete douche bag.

            “Oh that’s cool!” I said as I ordered a second glass of wine from the waitress, “How do you enjoy being a promoter?”

            “I just do it for fun. I actually have a very large trust fund. My dad is basically the Bill Gates of wine.”

            “We have so much in common. My dad is basically the Bill Gates of Motown music,” I said.

            “Yeah, everyone’s always impressed by how wealthy my family is. He has a lot of money. He has eight houses, or maybe nine, I can’t remember. I’ll fly you to LA so you can go on my yacht with me. We can drink margaritas that our in-home chef makes. It’s really fun for my friends and I to float our yachts next to each other for parties. You’ll like it.” I would have bet money I’d borrowed, on threat of death, from a psychotic mobster on this kid being completely full of shit.

             “I look good on yachts,” I said.

            “He’s likely pathological and doesn’t even know he’s lying anymore,” I reasoned. “Which is good, because I won’t have to pay to see Afrojack if he thinks he’s rich.”

            “… We’d met at the Hamptons and became fast friends one summer.” I stopped looking for tell-tale liar body language, and came in for the end of the story Mike was telling.

            “The Hamptons are for the lower-income rich,” I countered as I swirled my wine around in its glass before inserting my nose to test the bouquet.
             “My family only vacations at a VIP resort we built for ourselves on our private tropical island. We only invite our most fabulous friends.” He hadn’t heard a word I’d said all night, therefore he nodded and smiled.

            “You're so interesting. Everything you say is interesting to me," Mike said. "Girls always try to use me for my money, you know?”
            “I want someone to like me for me and not my money,” he confided. What? He’d just talked nonstop for the last hour about how much money his family has and everything his dad owned. The only thing I knew about him was that he was “rich” and now he was saying not to like him for that. 

            We left dinner and stopped in at Marquee, where he promoted, to see LMFAO before heading to Surrender for Afrojack. The only song of LMFAO that I knew was Party Rock, and by the millionth time I'd heard it, I’d wanted to water board every last member of the group until they promised never to make more music. But Mike got us in for free, and we got to cut the line, and he bought me a drink, so that was easily the best part of the date. Mike knew a lot of people at Marquee that night, and he walked around introducing me to all of them as his girlfriend. As we’d walk away he’d tell me how the people who’d gotten discounted bottles from him that night were his best friends.

            “Usually, I’d offer to buy the next round on a date, but since you keep saying how rich you are, It be pretty strange for me to buy it,” I said when I’d finished my first vodka tonic.

            “Actually, that would be great if you could get the next round,” Mike said. Wait, what? No. What was happening? I thought he was trying to have sex with me, and if that was really the case, then there’s no way I should be paying for my own drinks! It's just wrong! You might as well ask me to tie myself up and put myself in your trunk.
            Please don’t misunderstand me; I typically fall in love with young, broke artists, and when I go out with them, at the end of the night, we split the check at Denny’s, and I buy us both ice cream. BUT if your entire game is to tell me how rich you are, and that by being with you l will be able to get a lot of glamorous free stuff, then you MUST buy all of my drinks. I bought us a round, and as I simmered about how unfair the world can be, Mike grabbed my hand.

            “Let me introduce you to LMFAO! I’m really good friends with the one guy. We’ve hung out a lot, and I helped book them tonight.” Mike attempted to dodge LMFAOs bodyguard, by their VIP table, but was stopped.

            “I know [DJ team member], can you get his attention for me?” Mike asked the bouncer. The bouncer went to tap [DJ team member] on the shoulder, and pointed over at Mike. [DJ team member] looked directly at Mike, maintained a blank face, and shook his head No. 

            Mike looked as though he had taken a turtle hit in Super Mario and shrank to half his previous size. Oh my goodness, that was so embarrassing – for me. I felt so bad for myself. I’d just gotten dissed by LMFAO. I felt dirty. I wanted to go home and scrub myself until I felt normal again - if that was even possible now.   

            “They aren’t even that good,” Mike snarled as he pulled me away, “They only have that one song and the rest of their music sucks.”

“Ah, at least he was humiliated,” I thought, "That's nice." He drew me to stand by a low wall. A group of good-looking club-goers walked over to him, said hello, and thanked him for the table. He introduced me as his girlfriend again. When they walked away he was smiling as though he’d just farted a rainbow.

“Wow, babe!” he said. "You must be so impressed by how humble I am! I'm good looking, and rich, and everyone knows me, but I’m still so humble! You must be so impressed!"

“It’s not humble to tell people you’re humble,” I explained. Mike’s face dropped in total disbelief that he'd failed to impress me. Maybe he hadn't articulated how awesome he was enough yet? Maybe if he talked about it some more...

We took a taxi down the strip to Surrender to see Afrojack and Feed Me. I really love these DJs, and I wanted to watch them that night, but when we were standing in line to get in to the club it all became too much. One more story about his fictitious wealth, or how his ex-girlfriend was famous for being on Nip/Tuck, or whatever it was – it was too much. I made up my mind. I quickly yelled I had to go, something about Cinderella and pumpkins, and ducked under the velvet rope before sprinting away in my heels. I was concerned he was going to chase after me. I paid $15 for a taxi back to the Cosmopolitan to get my car before driving to my friend Avalon’s hotel room to recount my gift from the comedy gods.

Mike called me the next day to invite me to lunch and later that night about a pool party he was throwing that weekend. What part of me sprinting away didn't he understand? I chalked it off as another Vegas lesson learned: there’s no such thing as free sushi. 

My First Time

My junior year of college, four friends and I spent a week hiking and drinking around Puerto Rico for spring break.  We’d found round-trip tickets out of Philadelphia for $250, and you only needed a driver’s license to go, so we all packed in to an SUV and somehow didn’t kill each other on the drive from Columbus to Philly.  For two days we camped out on Culebra, an island off the East coast of Puerto Rico, and it was the most beautiful place I’ve ever been.  Once you’ve seen it, Culebra haunts your dreams. 

“I just want to make a bunch of money and then go live on Culebra for the rest of my life.”

“Fuck making money first!  Culebra’s cheap!  Let’s take off tonight.  There’s nothing for us here!  Nothing, I tell you!  We’ll sell Che Guevara jewelry and sleep in hammocks under the stars.” 

After a solid day’s worth of twisted effort, which included harassing and stalking small, school children; approaching seedy drug dealers; and walking several miles down the only road; we’d finally gotten weed from an alcoholic local named Mario who illegally taxied tourists around the island for a small fee.  Mario had affectionately nicknamed me his little “Idaho potato.”

“Idaho potato! My pretty little Idaho potato!”  Mario drunkenly said to me after we’d gotten out of his car at our campsite.  

“I’m from Ohio.  That’s a completely different state,” I explained.

“I’ll miss you Idaho potato! Call me if you need anything else.”

On the drive back to our campsite from our journey to find “el crepe,” cocktail in hand, Mario had been telling us about his lost love, a 74-year-old Jewish woman who lived in New York City.  He hated himself for it, but Mario was still desperately in love, despite having been rejected, and he was drinking away his pain while bouncing around Culebra with tourists hanging on for dear life. 

“It’s me, Mario!” Mario had yelled out of his car window earlier as he’d screeched away from the little convenience store where he’d picked us up minutes before.  Due more to being a crazy bastard, and less due to lack of space, my friend Joe sat in the trunk, feet dangling, chugging, and throwing empty beer cans behind Mario’s car us as we weaved in the tropical heat of our tiny, island paradise.  

Our first night there, I went out to the beach to relax and take in the stars with my two all-American friends; seriously, they’re Barbie doll and John Mayer.  Our two other friends, who spoke fluent Spanish due to studying abroad in high school in Peru and Chile, went to a rowdy barbeque with a bunch of Argentines at the next camp.  Since the Argentines were leaving the next day, they gave us the rest of their food – we had burgers and hot dogs and plenty to go around. 

So the next day, we invited our neighbors over for an afternoon picnic.  One of our neighbors was Jonathan, a man who camped out and exchanged favors for food on Culebra for half of the year.   The other half, he claimed, was spent in his very nice house back in the United States.  We were not sure if we believed him.  In exchange for lunch, Jonathan lent us his snorkeling gear, that he’d collected over time as it washed up on the beach, and showed us an untouched underwater paradise filled with bizarre, and beautiful creatures.  He’d also given us an unopened bottle of rum that campsite security had confiscated and thrown away from other campers – no glass bottles allowed on the beach.

Our other neighbor was Mimi, a yoga instructor who lived in New York City, worked as a bartender, and never shaved her body.  We all thought Mimi was about the grooviest girl we’d ever met.  She was camping out by herself for a week and had brought only nuts and berries to eat, so she was excited to have a burger.  In exchange for lunch, Mimi gave us some hash and a joint filled with psychedelic dream herbs.

“You all really need to diversify what herbs you smoke,” she counseled us,   “You’re cheating yourself by only smoking weed, there are so many great herbs that do different things for you.”

The next morning, after some psychedelic dreaming, I went with Mimi to the beach and did yoga for the very first time.  There’s nothing like the ocean waves lapping at your hands and feet as you press back in to your first ever downward facing dog.  

Lucy in the Sky with Leah

On one flight back to Vegas, my seat was by a wonderfully warm woman named Lucy.  She reminded me of my mother – she had the same quiet, sweet, intelligent way about her.  I could imagine being scared and alone and having her hug me, and how that would definitely make me feel better.  Obviously, I liked Lucy a lot.

            “How are you?” Lucy says to me.  I watch her closely as her fingers play nervously with a magazine sitting in her lap. 

            “I’m good.  Ready to be going home.”

            “You live in Las Vegas? 

“Yeah, for over half a year now.”

            “How is it living in Vegas?” Lucy asks.

            “Weird.”

            “I can only imagine.  This is my first time ever going to Las Vegas.  I’ve never done anything like this before,” Lucy says self-consciously. 

“What’s your name?”

            “Leah.  What’s yours?”

            “Lucy.  Nice to meet you, Leah.  I’ve got to tell you, Leah, I’m really nervous about this!  This isn’t like me!” 

            “What’s your story, Lucy?”

            “I’m going to meet a man I met online.  Well, I met him a week ago, Leah.  I’m newly divorced.  I was married for thirty years to a pastor, Leah.  And we’ve only been divorced for a couple of months.  This isn’t something I’ve ever done before.  I’m a long distance runner, and I met another man online who’s also a runner, and we met for the first time last week, Leah.” 

When I was a little kid, I wrote a song where “Leah” was all of the lyrics, and I aptly titled it “The Leah Song.”  So I was really digging Lucy’s “Leah” usage frequency.  Every time she said my name, I purred louder.   

            “And it went well with Internet runner man?” I ask.

            “Leah!”  Lucy gushes, she glows, she vibrates faster, “I’ve never experienced anything like this before!  We were so comfortable around each other immediately!  It was like being with an old friend!  And Leah,” Lucy’s energy causes me to levitate in my seat – a contact high. 

            “Leah, he’s just so handsome!  He’s a runner, Leah!  And he still has a full head of hair!  And Leah, he’s just so nice to me.”  That makes me happy.  I would never be anything but nice to Lucy as long as she promised to always say my name like that.  Leah.

            “My ex husband was never very nice to me.”  I watch a dark cloud descend, enveloping Lucy’s head.   I feel my forehead crinkle.  Only assholes are ever mean to wonderful, kind-hearted mothers.  What kind of monster is this pastor?

            “But now you’re going to Vegas to meet this far superior man!”  I remind her.  Lucy straightens and I watch her shake the clouds away. 

            “Oh Leah!  I’ve never done anything like this before!  I’ve only known him for a week, but he already had plans to come out to Vegas with some friends this weekend and he invited me to come along.  Every night this week I’ve spent over at his house though!  Every night since I’ve met him.  Imagine, Leah…”

            “That’s fantastic! I’m so glad to hear you’re on this new adventure!  You deserve it after 30 years with some man who didn’t treat you right!” I watch Lucy testing out her new wings. 

            “You know what the breaking point was, Leah?  Why I finally said enough is enough?  He was addicted to Internet porn.  He told me.  That was it – just one more example of him picking himself over me.   Thirty years and he never once put me first, Leah.  Internet porn.  That was really the last straw.  Imagine,” Lucy shakes her head.

            “I’m so excited for you!  It’s not every day you meet someone worth getting on a plane for.  Good on you.”

            “And how about you, Leah?  Any men in your life?”

            “No one worth jumping on a plane for, Lucy.”

**

            When we reach the luggage, I get to watch the whole slow motion reunion.  Lucy rides down the escalator to the luggage section, and waiting at the bottom, coming slowly in to view, with the biggest smile ever stretching across a tan face was a giddy man with a full head of hair.  I watch them hug each other as though it’s been years since they’d been together.  They turn in to little kids as he takes her luggage and her hand and says,

“How was your flight? I’ve missed you.” I smile.  Lucy had found her prince charming in running shoes.

Then I turned my back on the fireworks, and walked out to the taxi line alone. 

Oregon Trail!

            “Did you play Oregon Trail as a kid?” Lisa asks me.

“YES! Ah man!”  I can barely contain my joy! Oregon Trail! A classic part of so many of our childhoods!

How often have I ridden that lonely trail West?  In my dreams, will I forever be following that purple sun in to the distant unknown?  What rivers must I traverse in the future?  Can I sell my wife for some grain?  These are the questions that weigh heavy on a weary traveler’s mind…

            “Oh yeah!  I played some Oregon Trail back in the day!  I used to name a couple of the people going on the perilous journey after my enemies, that way if they came down with dysentery, it was great when they would die!  Like, ‘Oh, sorry girl who was mean to me today in gym class, but I brought a lawyer with us instead of a doctor!  Make your peace with The Force.  I’m going to go hunt some Buffalo!’

“And I’d always bring a gun, and a bunch of ammunition because it was the leader’s job to protect the others from starvation and robbers.  Conservation always weighed heavy on my mind.  

"The deer would go too fast, and Buffalo would always go to waste.  

"If only it wasn’t always surplus or famine, friends! 

"Always either too much, or too little!  

So many good people lost trying to make a better life for themselves.  My emotions run high with the memory of old friends never again to be seen in this world.  Those pilgrims were truly courageous, American warriors.”

“Yeah,” Lisa says, “It’s almost as much fun as you remember it being.  But not.”

“Oh. Cool.”

My 3 Favorite Pickup Lines

I've developed "man-game." Tucker Max has nothing on me.

1)   “What’s your story?”

“Well, I’m here in Vegas for a bachelor party, my friend Mike’s getting married.”

“Really? That’s cool! My story is Billy Goat’s Gruff. I like how determined the goats are to get to the other side of the moat. I also like that there’s a troll – I think trolls are scary.

It’s impossible to resist puns when you’re drunk in Vegas – they’re just too charming.

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2)   
"“We have so much in common!”

We don’t actually have anything in common.

3)   “If you could have any superpower, what super power would you want and why?”

When they say they want to fly, almost everyone wants to be able to fly, ask them how much effort goes in to flying. Would it be like sprinting super fast and require amazing cardio fitness? Or would it be like floating effortlessly? And how fast do they want to fly? If you can fly faster than light then you could conceivably go backwards in time. Is this what they were thinking? Or just looking to glide along like a bird?

By the time they’ve answered all of these questions, rapport is successfully built.